The development of information technology is notplace, and if in the last century people from different cities got to know each other and conducted an active conversation through letters, today not everyone can boast of such experience. Correspondence could be delayed for many years, because the long-awaited answer was very long and informative, and it had to wait for months. Currently, social networks have simplified communication between people from different cities, in the Internet space people find friends and soul mate. Girls, being the most curious, puzzle over what questions to ask the guy by correspondence so as not to scare him off and not seem intrusive.
Now many exchange services have been developedfast electronic messages, and for a few days a person can learn almost everything. The main task before acquaintance in the virtual world is to determine who in the future will become familiar by correspondence: a friend, a close friend or a partner. Proceeding from this, the girls develop tactics of action and in advance think over for the guys a question that will arrange for a pleasant conversation. Do not expect that the young man will immediately reveal all the cards and he will tell all about himself in detail.
It's no secret that girls are muchmore talkative, but unnecessarily long speeches can scare off a friend by correspondence, he will get the impression that his virtual girlfriend has forgotten about him and is leading a monologue. Whatever the conversation, two people should take part in it, and the talker, having told about himself, should wait for the answer from the interlocutor. Having prepared original questions to the guy, the girl will be able to talk him and learn more about his personal life and interests.
Young people are more secretive than womenthe fair sex, and prefer to listen more than speak. Women from long conversations have fun, and men, on the contrary, can be a little tired of hours of conversation. Because of this, there is a misunderstanding in the relationship, when a girl for a long time says something and asks her lover to repeat or express her opinion, and he only shrugs his shoulders.
Young people try not to show themselves in the worstlight, therefore, it is better not to ask some questions to the guy by correspondence at all, so as not to put him in an awkward position. Men prefer to remain silent about their well-being, and the exception can only be made by very rich owners of mansions or expensive cars. So, having asked about the car, you can put the interlocutor in a dead end, if he drives not expensive "Mercedes", and grandfather "Volga". Before you come up with a question for the guys, ask if they will enjoy the conversation with you, or they prefer to ignore the too curious person.
Depending on the status of the young personIn relation to you, a certain line must be delineated, it is not recommended to go beyond it. If you get acquainted with a guy from the motives to find in his person a reliable friend, take an interest in his views on life, hobbies, education or work place. It is recommended to ask ridiculous questions to the guys so that they relax in a conversation with you. This kind of communication turns out a real friendship, which, after a banal correspondence on the Web, grows into campaigns for musical festivals, exhibitions or bicycling. Ask your potential friend to remember a happy childhood and tell you about the first fall from a bicycle, the first hike to the zoo or an unsuccessful culinary experience. Do not be shy and tell him about your mistakes. Forcing a guy to laugh heartily, you can be sure that such a friend like you, he probably long ago was not enough. Do not ask a friend about his views on the female ideal, the first sexual experience or the desired number of children, otherwise the young man will think that you are claiming the role of his companion.
For guys, the question should not carry a bigmental load. It makes no sense to be interested in the opinion of a basketball player about the theory of probability or to reflect on Kant's philosophy with the architect. It is not recommended to ask an unfamiliar person about his religious and political views, the number of partners. Communication with a young man should be positive, so do not worry about his past, which has a place for sad memories, otherwise he will avoid further meetings with you.